My Truth About Valentine's Day

In February every year, the sight of large bouquets of flowers (that I can't get near to because I'm allergic to pollen) and expensive chocolate (that I cannot eat) nauseates me. Don't get me wrong: I'm not one to hate Valentine's Day. Matter of fact, I've always liked February 14th. It was the one day when my spirits were high and my hopes were lifted beyond the normal threshold. This was the day that I had held onto hope that the poor victim of my hopelessly crazy crush would realise how much he loved me and would publicly declare his undying love for me. Sadly folks, for years the opposite happened. This one time a crush actually asked a close friend of mine out and she said "yes'". So much for the day of love, huh? Truth be told, this is the third Valentine's Day I'll be celebrating "technically" single (don't ask me what that means, take it in as it is). When I wasn't technically single, I still got nothing: no flowers, no chocolates, no card, no text messages and no calls. So let's say, in all fairness, that I've been alone on this day for as long as I remember. Now, thinking about my plans for this Valentines Day (Which do not exist, by the way) allowed me to realise that February 14th, whether you're single or spoken for, is a day celebrated by the world and an idea that affection can be bought. A male friend of mine, as I'm typing this out, is stressing about what to get his girlfriend. They've only been together two years and he's basically bought her everything a normal boyfriend should buy his girl. I suggested he just plan out a picnic at his place or at the park but those cards have been drawn already (birthdays and anniversaries). The idea pot is running empty, ladies and gents. This is not good... Or is it? If he doesn't show up with something, would she be upset? Would this change their relationship?m does this apply to other couples around the world? Are we entertaining the idea that we can only receive love if we give tangible things to prove ourselves? Is Valentine's Day another means for women (and men alike) to exploit their partners in the name of love? This got me thinking, guys and girls. I've come up with a solution... I trust my next boyfriend and potential husband will see this and take note. See, I'm a simple girl. I don't want gifts and little things you have to break bank for to be impressed. Make me a home-made card with macaroni and glitter. Send me a text message with a poem you've composed (if you suck at poetry it's even better, I'll still end up smiling or laughing...). As long as I haven't told you that I love you, you're not obligated to buy me anything, really. Take me to the movies, let's got ten-pin bowling or to the zoo. Whatever you come up with, don't let it hurt your budget. The last thing I need is for you to resent me for making you buy things you cannot afford. Simple and practical - that's my truth about Valentine's Day